nav-left cat-right
cat-right

Are You An Emotional Masochist?

I am going to help you reclaim your happiness, if you want it. This is not going to be easy to read. During my time in the BDSM community, the community of people who admit to being sexually aroused by situations and activities that are not deemed normal to popular society, I came across the group of masochists. A masochist is a person who is sexually aroused and satisfied by being hurt. They get into relationships with...

Are You Ready For a Good Relationship?

Women who have gone through abusive pasts are particularly susceptible to entering into abusive relationships again and again simply because they do not recognize the patterns that they fall into when it comes to relationships. Just because you were not valued by a partner in the past does not mean that your future will be the same. You can learn how to recognize the signs of abuse, how to understand your role in your...

How to Stop Being in Abusive Relationships

Do you find yourself going from one abusive relationship to the next and you wonder why you keep meeting jerks? No, it doesn’t mean that you don’t deserve to be loved in a healthy way that honors you. There are several reasons why you may be attracting such destructive behavior into your life. Let’s explore a common reason why you may find yourself in a cycle of abusive relationships and what you can do...

I Left An Abusive Relationship 5 Years Ago

I left 5 years ago without a second thought. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. While the last five years have been hell in court and I sometimes feel like I’ve failed my daughter somehow I then look back and think ok I’m not near in the situation I was before. I can handle this if I made it through that! I left with nothing but the support of my family with $200.00 in my bank account but I made it. I...

How To Stop Being a Victim

Te-Erika Patterson is a mental health and personal success teacher in Los Angeles. She often shares her personal journey through many of life’s obstacles on her Youtube channel. In this video, she offers insight into her ability to stop being a victim. Learn from her. Subscribe to her Youtube channel and watch her grow. Follow OneLessSecret...

3 Ways Abuse Victims Make Life Harder For Themselv...

When you have been involved in an abusive situation, the world seems upside down. You are angry, hurt and confused as to why you had to go through this situation. You did not choose it. You don’t deserve it. It is a mighty feat to climb out of that pit of despair, especially when you feel powerless to stop it. As you seek solutions, trying to find a way to cope, you come to a thousand conclusions but none of them seem...