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Why Do Mothers Hurt Their Daughters?

“Sometimes I feel like I don’t like my daughter. She is one of those kids who will tell a lie for no reason and will have you believing her lies. When I had her there was no bond at all. When she would try to touch me it would gross me out. I don’t hate her, I just feel that I don’t like her,” revealed 35 year old Mary Ann.** Mary Ann is one of many Moms who hold feelings of resentment toward their daughters;  a broken...

How To Stop Being a Victim

Te-Erika Patterson is a mental health and personal success teacher in Los Angeles. She often shares her personal journey through many of life’s obstacles on her Youtube channel. In this video, she offers insight into her ability to stop being a victim. Learn from her. Subscribe to her Youtube channel and watch her grow. Follow OneLessSecret...

3 Ways Abuse Victims Make Life Harder For Themselv...

When you have been involved in an abusive situation, the world seems upside down. You are angry, hurt and confused as to why you had to go through this situation. You did not choose it. You don’t deserve it. It is a mighty feat to climb out of that pit of despair, especially when you feel powerless to stop it. As you seek solutions, trying to find a way to cope, you come to a thousand conclusions but none of them seem...

The Most Severe Punishments For Abusers

Many abuse victims do not speak up fearing that their claims will not be believed. We encourage victims of abuse to speak out the first time it happens to prevent continued abuse and in some cases, death as a result of abuse. We have scoured the net to find some of the most severe punishments for abusers so that you will learn just how awful these crimes are and that there are people who will believe you, if you tell before...

I Paid A Dear Price Being A Kept Woman

I was born into abuse. My biological parents decided without question that I was the reason they got divorced. They both told me as much when I was able to contact them at the age of eighteen. I was sent to several foster homes before I met the lady that adopted me. She was the first single lady in Jennings county to get to adopt a child. I was about three years old at the time. I often wonder if my life would have been more...

How To Be Strong When You Feel Weak

When it comes to engaging in abusive relationships, we all know what we are doing. We know that it is wrong how the other person is treating us and we know we want it to stop but for some reason we feel that we can’t make it stop. The truth is, we’re lieing to ourselves. We do know how to make it stop but we don’t want to do it because then we would feel- alone, unnecessary. The honest to goodness truth is,...

13 Ways To STOP Abuse

When it comes to engaging in abusive relationships we tend to believe we are powerless to stop it from continuing on but that is not true. We have ALL the power. In fact, no one can abuse us more than once without our permission. We give them permission to hurt us when we stay. How do you stop the abuse? Check out these 13 ways to end that shit immediately. Stop loving others more than you love yourself. Your first...

9 Therapies: How To Get Rid of Emotional Baggage F...

One of the biggest myths portrayed by the media, films and stories is that once you’ve had a traumatic experience, you will be emotionally scarred for life and that the best you can hope for is to learn to live with it, understand it. However, recent years have brought about a plethora of techniques to release emotions.  This list has been put together based on my personal experience of these therapies in my own quest to...